In this book, Pastor Gary D. Preston writes of his own experiences in ministry and how the Lord has led him through some of the most difficult and awkward moments of his life. He often refers back to the time when the board of elders at the church he was pastoring had decided to terminate him from his pastoral position.
Throughout these pages you will hear his heart poured out as he honestly confesses the frustrations and anger he felt at times toward those who seemed against him. As no one is ever fully prepared to handle every form of church conflict that may come their way, Pastor Gary does give some practical steps that everyone can take in order to freely forgive those who wound us deeply.
When everything seems to be falling apart and it feels as if everyone is against us we must remember that God is in control and over all human affairs. These times of hurt and moments of pain do not take the Lord by surprise. Rather, in the midst of the trials we face God is weaving in His marvelous grace throughout every detail of our situation.
He does not forget about us or leave us to ourselves, but He draws others to our side to be a source of comfort and encouragement just when we need it. Whether we are smack dab in the middle of turmoil, have just come out of a heated struggle, or are not yet experiencing such conflict, always remember that God is with us and for us.
Let God be God. He will work out the situation. What we must do is be faithful to Him, love His people (even those we find ourselves against), and walk humbly before Him both in private and public. Don't gossip, jump to conclusions, lose your cool or attack those who bring charges against you. Rather, bless those who persecute you and pray for them (Romans 12:14).
Take an honest look at your life before the Lord and confess any unrepentant sin. If you are a pastor, then you are called to be the leader and shepherd of your people. Lead by example. A church split has never happened over too much humility.
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