A special thanks to Tyndale HousePublishers for sending me a complimentary copy of Carl Medearis’ book, 42 Seconds.
Having
conversations with people is a difficult task which is becoming even more
challenging as the world moves to communicating through a screen opposed to the
normal face-to-face interactions. Sometimes it is awkward and other times it
can be tense, especially with the growing animosity in the world today towards
Christianity. This general avoidance of “hard-topics” has caused many of us to
fear speaking up when we know we should.
Nevertheless,
the Great Commission is still our mission. We, as believers in Jesus Christ,
are still commanded to make disciples wherever we are at in the world. This
means that eventually we must “speak” the Gospel to people so that they will
know the truth. However, one of the things that I love about this book is that Medearis
looks at conversations in somewhat of a different light than we might normally
expect.
You see, instead
of him pushing us to somehow insert the Gospel message into every single
conversation, Medearis challenges the reader to simply relax. That’s it. Relax.
Do not try and force anything upon someone but use discernment. If the
conversation opens itself up to you sharing the Gospel then, by all means, take
advantage of the opportunity. However, do not feel guilty when your work conversations
at the water cooler do not always result in you walking them through the Roman’s
Road.
Sometimes people
just need to talk about the “insignificant” things like the weather or sports
or even the last customer they had to deal with. Medearis’ challenge to each one
of us is to see, even those conversations, as significant. Why? The reason is because
each one of those little conversations are leading up and adding to both a
deeper and more influential relationship between you and the other person. Therefore,
whether you talk with someone for forty-two seconds or forty-two minutes, endeavor
to have a normal conversation with the other person because you never know
where it might lead.
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